Boys, Make up

How to survive a one night stand and wake up winning!

What’s poppin my beautiful slay queens? I loved and missed you so much and I have to share this based on my experience over last weekend. I have been working way too hard to come on here and give some of the details of whatmake-up-style-one-night-stand-woman happened last weekend.

This blog is inspired mostly by my personal experience and I know women have asked this question, but have  probably kept it to themselves because the stigma attached to cavalier and liberal queens.




Here are my  tips to winning the one night stand game.

 O.N.S. Make up Survival Kit

ONS stands for ” One Night Stand” btw. If you go out frequently and you have your run in with delicious men while you’re out and about, it is imperative for you to carry a few of these items in your purse as you gallivant the town. If you’re concerned about whether the man you’ll be doing your thing with will still be interested even after you remove your makeup, then you should question whether if you want to go that route. (Word of Advice) You WANT to have a makeup removal routine for ONS’s because you’ll be able to see if your dude is worth it.

If he was attracted to just your make up look and poppin highlighter than you need to re-evaluate. On to the kit.

Items to have:

  • Make up remover
  • Moisturizer
  • Altoids
  • Travel size deo
  • emergency $20 bill
  • Phone Charger
  • Mascara (for the morning)
  • Hair Tie
  • Feminine wipes
  • travel sized tooth brush and toothpaste (not always practical but helpful)
  • CONDOMS (wrap it up ladies) gotta stay safe
  • Gum
  • extra pair of panties

Listen, I know ONS’s aren’t things we classy ladies plan right? wink wink* I get it, honestly I DO, but we must always be prepared because we NEVER EVER know if that random night of fun with our girl friends is going to turn into an amazing ONS where you perhaps, maybe meet the love of your life. If your ONS is nothing more than a chance for you to get some action and nothing more,then fine, who cares about the ONS survival kit, right?


You want to always keep it fresh and ready, just in case you run into each other again in the near future sometime. You definitely do not want your rep going down the drain right? If you do happen to have something big with any one of your guys, where a steamy night sex and passion turn into something quite serious, you want to leave a good first impression.

To that I say do whatever you can to leave that good mark, because you want to definitely go from being the girl of his night to the girl of his dreams, if it so fits you. I only bring it up because there have been many a tale of women meeting their life partners on ONS’s and it turned out magnificent for them.

That’s how I met my guy. He was kind of rebounding and I had to come in like some savior and rescue his broken little heart with an amazing night and then a lasting impression thereafter. We are still together now and have been for the past 5 years or so and I honestly could not ask for more. I write this as an ode to all of my young and fly women everywhere, it can happen to you. It can absolutely happen to you and for you , and most importantly because of you. I’m doing my thing as a MUA in south Florida he believed in me and I will be starting my Youtube channel soon because of everything he’s done for me. He has a business too that he runs and is very successful at.


My beautiful slay queens, stay positive stay strong and I hope this message assisted you on your way to having the best ONS’s to come. I no longer require those experiences now that I am settled and happy with who I am with and moving onto a much more future building chapter of my life. Whatever you do always slay the game and stay true to you. Get in touch with me here and stay updated on my blog.


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Gossip, Make up, Slay stuff

To Make up or not to make up? That is the question

Greetings slay queens!

I am more than sure you have heard the news and have seen on social media the argument of make up being the cause and the continuation of low self-esteem. Celebrities like Alicia keys has taken a stance on going bare face to much of her outtings and may I say she looks fabulous hunty! She is surely a slay queen with or without makeup, but there is nothing wrong with getting a little caked up ok.

The bare face isn’t nor should be a revolutionary act,but make up dates back to Egypt when women were enhancing their beauty anyways, with out the influence of westernized beauty standards propagated through the media.

This post isnot meant to be drawn out or long because you can scour the inter-webs and find out more about what is being said and how people are reacting. I want to know how do you feel?

Please comment on this blog or send me a royal message here slay queens

Ciao xoxoxoxo…

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The Top Makeup Trends to Wind Down Summer 2016

Hello my darling Slay Queens! Here are the top makeup trends to wind down summer 2016.

The warm and bright weather may be coming to an end, but beauty wise, you can still finish it

off with style. Whether you are looking for a minimal non-touring or a glitter, this tail end of

summer has you covered. All you need to do is to be adventurous and after all fall will catch up

with you soon enough. So, don’t be the last to try these trends when they come calling your


1.Negative Space Eyelinernegative-space-eyeliner-makeupstyle20


This eyeliner trend has a similar streamlined appeal as the negative space nails. It is quite simple,

but sleek and graphic. It is just like drawing lines in the crease of your eyelids or better still

tracing the outlines of your cut eye. Because the main concentration here is the cut out effect,

your lines must be precise and always stay intact. Ensure you use a long lasting and budge-proof

liquid eyeliner as well as a shadow primer.


Contrary to how a heavy contoured look will make you appear, non-touring is extremely soft. It

makes your skin appear glowing and dewy without it looking dry or super matte. As a matter of

fact, you should be the only one knowing you are wearing it and no one else should even see it.

During summer, most people spend time outside and wear lighter foundation. This makes it look

even more natural. The essentials for non-touring are a tinted moisturizer, a highlighter, and a

luminous shimmer.


Even though summer is coming to an end, sandbagging is still a technique you can use to

accentuate your beauty. This technique entails caking on some loose powder around the bottom

edges of your lips and underneath your eyes to absorb grease for an ultra-smooth matte finish.

4.Color Lashescolor-lashes-makeupstyle20

If you want to indulge in a bit of color play either at a music festival or in the office, the easiest

way is to have a non-black mascara moment. You can attain this by mixing and matching a

bright lash hue such as yellow or combat blue with complementing slashes of eyeliner. If you

want, you can even wear it alone. Get this from me; it is going to make you look cooler 20 times


5.Glitter Tearsglitter-tears-makeupstyle20

Glitter is still around and as hot as ever. What a gift to mark the last days of summer! Whether

you want a stack of sparkle that makes a statement or just a light dusting, covering up your dark

circles with sparkle is real fun. The good thing is, you don’t need much to create your tears of

joy; you just need sparkles and a moisturizer. The moisturizer is to help you make them stick.

6.Glossy Lids

Back in the day, glossy lids was a trick adored by Marilyn Monroe. As a matter of fact, makeupglossy-lids-makeupstyle20

artists during Fashion Week dab Vaseline on top of the contestants’ eyelids as a way of giving

them a glossy finish. Did you know you can attain the same look even when you use lip gloss?

This is where beauty becomes interesting.

In addition to the above trends, you can also go for lip oils. These will give you a wet shiny

finish and nourish your pout. What a nice way to bid farewell to summer!

Inspired by NYFW 2016

May the Slay be with you my queens! Holler at me.

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Taylor Swift and Tom Hiddleston sing the break up blues

Hello my beautiful slay queens! Today we are going to cover the latest rumor on the shake it off singer Taylor Swift. So her and actor Tom Hiddleston have broken things off after about 3 months of dating. Given her track record is anyone really dropping their jaws over this? Isn’t this typical Taylor and business as usual? I mean, that we are still covering her love life is proving how much of a drag the latest of celeb gossip is at the moment.

“Taylor has a new BF. Oh no., now they’re broken up” yada yada yada….#yawn


Another rebound.


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Taylor Swift with Tom Hiddleston



Is it any surprise really? I mean c’mon. It really isn’t any of our business what Taylor decides to do with her love life or va-jay-jay for that matter. This was definitely. Give it a little more time and some other unsuspecting bystander would have fallen into the clutches of the country black widow spider. When can we all get back to our lives now? like seriously!


If you  guys want to get in on the action with your comments, please feel free to do so. Reach out to a slay queen betches right here. Stay up to date slayphiles and kill the game!…

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